With Pain Awareness Month fast approaching, I thought I would kick off my first post about what comments someone in pain should totally ignore. We have all been there – you are feeling awful and in terrible pain and yet you get a comment that will make you feel as if your pain could not possibly be real. Some of the classic comments which you should totally ignore are –
- We all get more aches and pains as we get older.
- I think I have that, too.
- If you get more sleep, you will feel better.
- You look to well to be sick.
- At least it’s not life threatening.
- You just need to exercise more.
- It’s all in your head.
- You don’t look sick.
- Have you tried?
- Does that condition really exist?
- Tell me about it!
- I hope you will feel better soon.
- If you lose weight it might help.
- Are you better yet?
- You were obviously overdoing things then?
- If you focused on something else you would feel better.
- Everyone has bad days.
- You should stop doing…
- It could be worse.
- It can’t hurt that bad.