Stop Judging Yourself – If you are having a bad day it is not usually because you have done something wrong to cause your pain. You’re just having a bad day.
Health Ambition – It is good to have a health ambition but break it down until you can see that you could achieve 90% of it. A classic example was something I did wrong. I can manage a 20-minute walk on most days so I decided to try 30 mins. But those extra 10 minutes left me in an awful lot more pain. What I should have done was tried 5% longer than 20 mins then gradually increase it to where I was more comfortable.
Notice A Change – Notice every little change you have achieved however little. Write it down and give yourself a pat on the back as you deserve it.
Gratitude – Every day before you go to sleep, think about your day and try and find one thing that you are grateful for. It might surprise you.
Planning – I guess this goes without saying but it can make such a difference to something you have planned be it a holiday or a celebration you are going to. Plan to get those extra naps, pack a few days before to avoid aggravating your pain. This great site Starts at 60 has an article on ‘How to Pack your Clothes So They Don’t Crease’.
Crafting– Did you know that crafts were prescribed for soldiers after the First World War. It helped them recover from stress for over 100 years and occupational therapy has used craft as a healing therapy since the late 19th Century. There will definitely be something you could try with endless lists and links and how-to guides on the internet. I personally could not cope with my pain if I did not have a few crafting projects on the go. It can become quite addictive.
Surprise – Once a month surprise someone with a phone call, a letter or a message. Not only will it make you feel better it will make the recipient just as happy. Maybe write 12 people you would love to contact and put one for each month of the year.
Complimentary Therapies – Did you know that the US Pain Association lists over 46 Complementary Therapies. If you have never tried therapy to help your pain then you will never know if it may help you. Therapists are also good listeners and are not watching the clock while you are talking to them. Even having your nails done is relaxing and vouchers for therapies make great gifts from your loved ones.
Relaxation – Relaxation is essential for anyone who is in pain. Without my regular afternoon rest, my day ends in far more pain. You don’t have to go to bed for your rest but make it a regular one even if it’s only 15 minutes in a comfortable chair just get your body tuned to this rest every day. You will be surprised what a difference it makes to the rest of your day.
Reading – Reading something nice or informative takes you away to another place for a while. You can now get free book downloads from Amazon and other sites so you do not even need to leave your house to buy a book. I cannot remember the last time I actually bought a book. There are also online Book Reading Groups. Reedsy has a list of 15 of the best Online Book Clubs you can join. Try and allocate at least half an hour of your day to just sit and read a book be it on your Kindle or other Ipad.
I am a mum and wife to a lovely caring family. I’ve suffered with chronic back pain for over 30 years and started writing my first blog in 2007 which covered back and chronic pain. Since then I have written many more blogs for myself and customers. I find it takes me away from my pain to another place. I love it so much I think it should be part of a recovery process after illness or surgery. I hope you enjoy reading through my blogs.
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